The Lantern

LXCL:Sliding scale $195 - $375

Early Bird

LXCL:Sliding scale $215-$395

General Admission

About The EventBefriending mortality can be seen as a spiritual quest, a psychological assignment, a philosophical riddle, or a culture-making undertaking. In this two-day workshop we approach the fact of our deaths as a subject for learning. Dedicated to democratizing information and rebuilding our collective knowledge around how we care for our dying and our dead, facilitator Holly J. Pruett weaves together big questions, stories, poetry, and nitty gritty details. &nbsp; Based on the popular six-session online Befriending Mortality series, this is the first time the experience is being offered in person, exclusively through The Lantern.&nbsp; SessionsOctober 2nd, 6-8:30pm&nbsp;October 3rd, 9am-3pm Lunch and curated resource materials are included.&nbsp; CostEarly Bird: $195 - $375 sliding scaleGeneral Admission: $215 - $395 sliding scale From Befriending Mortality Participants&ldquo;I appreciate Holly&#39;s ability to welcome people with all kinds of experiences and interests into this space. I had hesitated about signing up &ndash; I don&#39;t have a terminal diagnosis or experience with supporting someone during their dying time, and I questioned whether I belonged here. Holly made space for all of us, with kindness, humor, grace, and gentle practicality.&quot; &ldquo;I am going to start a conversation among my immediate family so that we can share our thoughts and wishes and make it normal to talk about death.&rdquo; AgendaThe opening Befriending Mortality session on Friday evening asks &ndash; What happens when we approach death as a teacher? Might we learn better how to care for the dying in our midst, to live in the presence of our mortality, to relate to our dead as something other than &ldquo;lost,&rdquo; and to die when it is our turn? Might grief be developed as a skill, not just suffered as an emotion? Could the skill of heartbrokenness be essential to the times we are in? The Saturday Intensive walks us through a continuum of care and considerations from The Dying Time to Final Disposition and what happens between Death and Disposition. We&rsquo;ll explore a full range of Ceremonies of Remembrance and Bereavement and how all of this might come together in a Death Plan. &nbsp; Topics include: The Dying Time &ndash; How do we support the dying in our midst? What supports might we want for our dying time? We&rsquo;ll look at the landscape from diagnosis to death: palliative care and hospice; medical aid in dying (MAID), voluntary stopping eating and drinking (VSED), and other forms of &ldquo;choice in dying&rdquo;; assembling a care team and the role of an end-of-life doula; and the deaths that don&rsquo;t go &ldquo;according to plan.&rdquo; Final Disposition&nbsp;&ndash; What will happen to your body when you die? What guides this decision? We will pull back the curtain on the full range of options including how to detect green washing when it comes to technologies and products marketed as eco-friendly, including natural organic reduction (also known as human composting, terramation, and soil transformation) and alkaline hydrolysis (aquamation, or water or flameless cremation). From Death to Disposition&nbsp; &ndash; Historically, care for the dead was handled by family and community &ndash; and legally, it is still our right to do so. But for many, our ancestral ways of caring for each other after death have been forgotten. We&rsquo;ll review the aspects of deathcare now outsourced to professionals &ndash; bathing, dressing, and transporting the body; sourcing a casket, shroud or urn; handling the paperwork &ndash; and consider the benefits of more hands-on engagement. Remembering Together &ndash; How do we honor, and strengthen, the continuity of relationships across the veil of life and death? We&rsquo;ll consider inspiring examples of creative ceremonies of bereavement and remembrance, including meaningful funerals, living memorials, and &ldquo;re-dos&rdquo; of ceremonies that went wrong or never happened. Creating a Death Plan &ndash; Birth plans have been promoted as a way for expectant parents and their care team to clarify and communicate their values, needs, and preferences for both optimal and unforeseen scenarios. A written death plan can do the same. We&rsquo;ll review all the elements you may want to consider: physical/ medical, legal/ logistical, emotional/ spiritual, and social/ cultural along the time spectrum of before illness, during the dying time, and after death. Who this is for &nbsp; - You&rsquo;re healthy, ill, or living with a terminal diagnosis, a solo ager &ndash; or any age, coupled, widowed or divorced &ndash; wanting to befriend your mortality&nbsp; - You need to complete a few tasks around befriending your mortality, and could use support&nbsp; - You don&rsquo;t have others to talk with about your mortality &ndash; or you do, but want some structure About Your FacilitatorAn experienced and knowledgeable life passage guide, Holly J. Pruett helps individuals, families, and communities to prepare for, live with, and talk about death. Holly is professionally trained as a Life-Cycle Celebrant, Community Death Educator, Home Funeral Guide, and Death Doula; with two Proficiency Badges from the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance, and certification in Thanatology from the Association for Death Education &amp; Counseling. You can find Holly here: <a fr-original-style="" href="https://www.hollyjpruett.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="text-decoration-color: currentcolor; user-select: auto; box-sizing: inherit;" target="_blank">https://www.hollyjpruett.com</a> About The LanternThe Lantern is a new nonprofit organization born from the belief that no one should have to grieve alone. We are on a mission to embrace and illuminate the full human experience by holding supportive space for life&#39;s joys and sorrows, nourishing deep connections, expanding access to grief and healing, advancing grief literacy across sectors, and reawakening our capacity to grieve and love. You can find us here: <a fr-original-style="" href="http://www.thelanternpdx.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="text-decoration-color: currentcolor; user-select: auto; box-sizing: inherit;" target="_blank">www.thelanternpdx.org</a>

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About The EventBefriending mortality can be seen as a spiritual quest, a psychological assignment, a philosophical riddle, or a culture-making undertaking. In this two-day workshop we approach the fact of our deaths as a subject for learning. Dedicated to democratizing information and rebuilding our collective knowledge around how we care for our dying and our dead, facilitator Holly J. Pruett weaves together big questions, stories, poetry, and nitty gritty details.   Based on the popular six-session online Befriending Mortality series, this is the first time the experience is being offered in person, exclusively through The Lantern.  SessionsOctober 2nd, 6-8:30pm October 3rd, 9am-3pm Lunch and curated resource materials are included.  CostEarly Bird: $195 - $375 sliding scaleGeneral Admission: $215 - $395 sliding scale From Befriending Mortality Participants“I appreciate Holly's ability to welcome people with all kinds of experiences and interests into this space. I had hesitated about signing up – I don't have a terminal diagnosis or experience with supporting someone during their dying time, and I questioned whether I belonged here. Holly made space for all of us, with kindness, humor, grace, and gentle practicality." “I am going to start a conversation among my immediate family so that we can share our thoughts and wishes and make it normal to talk about death.” AgendaThe opening Befriending Mortality session on Friday evening asks – What happens when we approach death as a teacher? Might we learn better how to care for the dying in our midst, to live in the presence of our mortality, to relate to our dead as something other than “lost,” and to die when it is our turn? Might grief be developed as a skill, not just suffered as an emotion? Could the skill of heartbrokenness be essential to the times we are in? The Saturday Intensive walks us through a continuum of care and considerations from The Dying Time to Final Disposition and what happens between Death and Disposition. We’ll explore a full range of Ceremonies of Remembrance and Bereavement and how all of this might come together in a Death Plan.   Topics include: The Dying Time – How do we support the dying in our midst? What supports might we want for our dying time? We’ll look at the landscape from diagnosis to death: palliative care and hospice; medical aid in dying (MAID), voluntary stopping eating and drinking (VSED), and other forms of “choice in dying”; assembling a care team and the role of an end-of-life doula; and the deaths that don’t go “according to plan.” Final Disposition – What will happen to your body when you die? What guides this decision? We will pull back the curtain on the full range of options including how to detect green washing when it comes to technologies and products marketed as eco-friendly, including natural organic reduction (also known as human composting, terramation, and soil transformation) and alkaline hydrolysis (aquamation, or water or flameless cremation). From Death to Disposition  – Historically, care for the dead was handled by family and community – and legally, it is still our right to do so. But for many, our ancestral ways of caring for each other after death have been forgotten. We’ll review the aspects of deathcare now outsourced to professionals – bathing, dressing, and transporting the body; sourcing a casket, shroud or urn; handling the paperwork – and consider the benefits of more hands-on engagement. Remembering Together – How do we honor, and strengthen, the continuity of relationships across the veil of life and death? We’ll consider inspiring examples of creative ceremonies of bereavement and remembrance, including meaningful funerals, living memorials, and “re-dos” of ceremonies that went wrong or never happened. Creating a Death Plan – Birth plans have been promoted as a way for expectant parents and their care team to clarify and communicate their values, needs, and preferences for both optimal and unforeseen scenarios. A written death plan can do the same. We’ll review all the elements you may want to consider: physical/ medical, legal/ logistical, emotional/ spiritual, and social/ cultural along the time spectrum of before illness, during the dying time, and after death. Who this is for   - You’re healthy, ill, or living with a terminal diagnosis, a solo ager – or any age, coupled, widowed or divorced – wanting to befriend your mortality  - You need to complete a few tasks around befriending your mortality, and could use support  - You don’t have others to talk with about your mortality – or you do, but want some structure About Your FacilitatorAn experienced and knowledgeable life passage guide, Holly J. Pruett helps individuals, families, and communities to prepare for, live with, and talk about death. Holly is professionally trained as a Life-Cycle Celebrant, Community Death Educator, Home Funeral Guide, and Death Doula; with two Proficiency Badges from the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance, and certification in Thanatology from the Association for Death Education &amp; Counseling. You can find Holly here: <a href="https://www.hollyjpruett.com" target="_blank">https://www.hollyjpruett.com</a> About The LanternThe Lantern is a new nonprofit organization born from the belief that no one should have to grieve alone. We are on a mission to embrace and illuminate the full human experience by holding supportive space for life's joys and sorrows, nourishing deep connections, expanding access to grief and healing, advancing grief literacy across sectors, and reawakening our capacity to grieve and love. You can find us here: <a href="http://www.thelanternpdx.org" target="_blank">www.thelanternpdx.org</a>

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Befriending Mortality (In person)

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